Lack of trust in a relationship is a time bomb. Especially when it comes to your loved one.
All relationships very often need questionable trust. Therefore, only those who do not show signs of a latent traitor in their behavior who can insert a knife in your back at a convenient opportunity should be allowed into their “inner circle”.
We represent 10 qualities of people who will never be truly loyal to you.
10. Hides a lot
You do not know anything about his childhood, relatives, professional activities, and in general he does not reveal to you any exact information about himself, limiting himself to only some vague definitions.
When you start to ask him something, he insistently leaves the answer, moves the conversation the other way, or even abruptly asks you to stop the interrogation. His biography is a mystery covered in darkness.
Do you recognize? If so, then it is likely that this person is deceiving you or simply does not plan to build strong relationships with you. Be careful and do not blame this behavior simply on a closed nature.
9. Walks away from the answer
A person does not like to give specific answers to the questions posed. In a conversation, he wags in a frying pan, trying to get away from an uncomfortable topic. This indicates that the person with you is not sincere.
Someone to whom you are really dear may sometimes say things that you will not like, however, he will be guided by good intentions towards you, and not by the desire to get away from an uncomfortable question by the method of chattering.
8. Already refused help
Of course, if a person once abandoned you in a difficult situation, then most likely he will do the same the next time you need help. In this case, you need to forgive him, but no longer consider him a man of your inner circle.
7. Cancels the decision.
A person who is irresponsible about this word is likely to have a weak character. He does not have stable moral principles and his preferences can change instantly depending on the external environment.
If your friend or loved one has seven Fridays a week, then you can never rely on him, so your “rear” will always be unprotected.
6. Quickly changes the point of view
A similar style of behavior can be characterized by the proverb "where the wind blows, the grass spreads there."
Such a person is like water, which easily takes the form of the vessel into which it was placed. There is no core in it, no principles and indestructible moral principles through which he will never cross.
For him there is nothing forbidden or unquestioned. It can be anything, and you can never be completely sure of it.
5. Overly helpful
If suddenly someone from your close circle seems too friendly or too helpful, then you should look at such a person as critically as possible. Very often in such a barrel of honey is hidden a very large spoon of caustic tar.
Therefore, if someone tells you too many compliments and openly flatters your vanity, but if you want to find out something important about yourself, it eludes the topic, then you need to be very careful with it.
Most often, such persons from a very unsightly side show their true essence, however, unfortunately, it is often too late.
4. Says a lot when it is better to keep silent
Nonsense always indicates personal inferiority. Such people, with their meaningless tales, tire the interlocutors and even cause disgust.
Women can not immediately guess about the insidious intentions of a hollow man, since he gives the impression of a fairly sincere and friendly person.
When a woman begins to trust him, he gradually pulls her into some kind of muddy game: he climbs with intrusive inquiries into her soul, thanks to which he finds out information useful to him. This is because for the majority of the fair sex in this situation, the principle of "frankness for frankness" begins to apply.
Such men pose a great danger to women - they can not only break the heart, but also use it for their own selfish purposes.
3. Has a selfish disposition
A person who has a pronounced tendency to narcissism and narcissism, believes that he is the center of the universe, and that everything in this world should revolve around him. Because of this, such a person can never inspire confidence.
He does not know how to admit his guilt, even if he was wrong, and will always shift responsibility to others' shoulders. It is possible that sooner or later you will become this “other” if you let him get close to you. In the end, he can even convince you that you are to blame for his mistakes and failures.
Such people are capable of betrayal at any moment, because for them in the first place only their painful ego matters, and everything else is secondary.
2. Promises a lot
Only those who know that he will not have to fulfill them easily make promises. That is, a person in this case, to throw dust in your eyes goes to an outright lie.
Remember, people who are used to answering for their words do not make promises. At the same time, they know the value of their reputation and sincere relations. People who can promise a “moon from heaven”, but are not ready to sacrifice the smallest for your sake, do not deserve your attention.
1. Fickle
Such a person makes a date with you, and then, at the last moment, cancels everything. You can not rely on him. He will let you down when you hope for his support, and he will find a thousand excuses for his inaction.
To trust such persons is absolutely contraindicated. You can never be sure that he will not change his decision to the opposite, guided by a momentary mood.